Saturday, February 28, 2009

I love growing things









I love to plant flowers in my yard. I didn't for many years when my kids were small because I didn't think we could afford bedding plants. But then I started to think about my mom and how she always planted pansies, mums, violets, bleeding hearts, honeysuckle, bachelor buttons, gladiolas, etc., etc. I decided that I wanted my kids to remember me for flowers too. But it took me a long time to figure out what would grow in Arizona and when. The ones my mom planted in Utah that will grow here - grow in an entirely different season.
Here are some from my front yard. Oh yeah! And roses. We both love roses.
The Gerber Daisies are for Anna. They are some of her favorites. I haven't figured out how to arrange the pictures on my blog the way I want them to appear and put the notes about my photos next to them. Oh, I'm SO computer illiterate!


I like my
petunias and snapdragons too. They are much prettier this year than they were last year. I guess I'd better quit with the photos. It is going to take forever to load.

I'll show you more flowers later.

Thursday, February 26, 2009

My terriffic husband - David!



David has been having a lot of very "unglamorous" medical problems lately. It's been very scary too. A lot of these things that he has to deal with could eventually be fatal. Well, life is actually fatal. What I mean is that some of these things are indicators that David could be moving on a little sooner that the rest of us. But then look at Marcia and Jim. Who would have thought he would ever outlive her!
Just to let everyone I know that I really love David. Here are some of the things I really love about him:
  1. He loves the Gospel of Jesus Christ and always tries to fullfill his callings and be a good example to others. Well except for two weeks the summer of 1977. Muriel and West took the older boys to Wyoming with them and while they were gone, David took a vacation from going to church. He stayed home and slept and watched TV andeven washed his car on Sunday. When we got to the end of the second week, David asked me if they were going to be home the next Sunday. When I told him they would, he sighed and said, "Well, I guess I'd better get my butt in gear and get back to being a good example and a Father." I suppose he repented because we haven't noticed any serious lapses since. He's been a pretty darn good example.
  2. David loves me. I know that David is not perfect (although I was young enough and foolish enough to think so at first). He makes mistakes and has his faults, but he is almost perfect at loving me. There have been many times when I have been mean and grouchy and absolutely awful! And he loved me. I have weighed more than 200 lbs and was embarrassed to show my face outside the front door. And David loved me anyway. I have been unreasonable, stubborn and critical. And David still loved me. I can trust him. I can depend on him. I believe he will always love me. My Dad loved my mom --"No matter what- - -" and I wanted someone who would love me like that. I think I found him.
  3. David is sweet with his grandkids . He loves them and is delighted when they show love to him.
  4. He is forgiving. He has been abused and maligned by a few people in his life and he forgives them.
  5. He is clean and has good hygiene. He takes good care of his hair and his beard .
  6. He listens to me and tries to please me.
  7. He likes to give me gifts and I am very hard to give gifts to. He has made it a life-long study, trying to find gifts he can give me that I like. Mostly, I guess he just lets me do whatever I want to do and encourages me in it.
  8. He is very smart and a fast learner.
  9. He's nice to snuggle up next to at night and he makes me feel safe.
  10. We can spend hours and hours together and enjoy ourselves the whole time.
I really like having David around. I hope he's here, with me, for many, many, more years!!!

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

I accept the challenge!

So I googled "Barbara needs --"
  1. a good swift kick in the #@$%!!
  2. your help. (I'm not sure what kind of help.)
  3. to be thin again. (Boy, ain't it the truth!)
  4. our prayers and thoughts. (There was also - "our prayers and juice" and I thought of Treyjen. He often plops himself down in Grandpa's recliner and tells me "I need Blue's Clues and juice.")
  5. to raise her insurance.
  6. to go!!!!!
  7. to retire. (Don't I wish I could afford to.)
  8. to finish the vest (apparently I don't finish all my craft and sewing projects. NO!)
  9. to reconsider her definition of "value." (Not sure where this one came from or is going.)
  10. people who need people. (If I hum, I get the feeling that I have heard this somewhere before.)
P.S. I am trying to figure out why I can't get my mini-movies off my camera. When I do, you will have something more interesting to look at.

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

My blogs are booorrring! I never write about anything interesting. But if you want to hear about a lot of blood and misery, just ask David what he has been doing lately. Actually, don't ask. Unless you go far, far away so I don't have to listen to how miserable he has been. Living through it once was enough.
I love him but when he gets scared he has a tendency to get carried away.

Monday, February 9, 2009

Trying to catch up.

Yeah, right! My last blog said, "I'm baaaack!" NOT. I really intended to write more consistently. But this time, instead of feeling too down to write anything, I got too busy. I was anxiously awaiting Jennie's visit and enjoyed it thoroughly. Mostly we visited. I can't think of anything special we did except for going to Quartzite to visit Abe and Marilyn (her biological dad and step-mom). I'm not sure we would have done it had we realized how far away it was. I thought it was about an hour's drive from Phoenix. How about THREE. Which makes it four hours from Mesa. And there is nothing in between. It is almost in Blythe, California. It was a long, miserable drive to make with five complaining kids and one neurotic dog in a car. Actually, the kids weren't really that bad most of the time. But when we were still about an hour from Quartzite, they got hungry and started begging Jennie to stop and get them something to eat. "Sure," said Jennie. "We'll stop anywhere you want." There was nothing but desert, as far as the eye could see. "You just pick out whichever cactus or palo verde tree you want to eat at, and we will stop."

OH, oh, oh! (This is one of Jennie's witicisms that popped out of her mouth one day in Sunday School class.) Why did Jesus love little children so much? (the teacher asked). "Because he never had to travel in a car with them."
Jennie actually said it under her breath to Phil Peterson, but Phil immediately said it loud enough for the whole class to hear.

After Jennie left (I sure miss her) David started working 24/7 on an $8,000,000 bid for some work in Bullhead City. (Yup, that's eight million.) David had to go to Bullhead City to submit the bid and they were going to put him up for the night in a hotel over there and he wanted me to go with him so I did.

I've been applying for jobs online ever since. It sure is a stupid, unproductive process. I wish I knew someone who could put in a good word for me and help me get a job. Networking is really what it is all about. Otherwise, you are just a name and some words on a piece of paper.

I went to Christian's Ward Conference 'cause David had to go (as a Stake Leader). It was a very good meeting. Bp. Singleton talked about learning to rely on God instead of yourself or other men. He talked about his first BIG lesson in doing that when he was sent to Viet Nam.
Then President Speakman told us that the Bishop's Storehouse was not adequate to take care of the needy in the church during these upcoming hard times. He said that the bishop is likely to come to us and ask us to give food (or something else) to others in the ward that we have worked hard to have and that we will very likely need ourselves. He said that he felt that there were a large number of members in our Stake who were "consecrated" members, who would do whatever was asked of them, with willing and cheerful hearts. I really love Pres. Speakman. I can really feel the spirit whenever he talks to us.

The first part of this post was written over a week ago. I'm finally getting back. A big part of the delay, however was the two days I spent reading Leslie's blog about "You know you're an Arizonan if . . . ." I've been having trouble with my eyes the past couple of days. Maybe they just got worn out reading that blog! (Just kidding. It was really long, but pretty funny. I'm just surprised that anyone in Arizona had enough patience to write all that. Surely no one I know.)

Well, I finally have a job working at Kohl's Department Store as a cashier. I start my training today at 6:15 p.m. I need to find out about the insurance plan they have. I hope I like this job. It isn't at the Kohls right by us but at Val Vista and ??? --I can't remember the street. Somewhere down by the 202 -- way south.

We just found out that David has something else wrong with his heart -- an atrial flutter. Somehow that is different from and atrial fibulation. (however you spell it) Anyway, he has to go in next week and they are going to try to fix it with something called an ablation (I think). If that doesn't work, they may have to do surgery. All this is pretty upsetting. I wish all these heart researchers would get busy and get more stuff out there that we can really use. A few years ago David and I heard about how they could inject stem cells into a heart and they would start growing functioning heart tissue in hearts that had been seriously damaged by heart attacks. That is what is wrong with David. A whole one-third of his heart is dead. Non-functioning. Where are those stem cells? Why aren't they injecting them into his heart?